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Vanilla Sex

Vanilla sex—or “just” vanilla sex? “Vanilla sex” is slang for sex that is plain, or traditional, or unimaginative–not “kinky.” It generally doesn’t involve role-playing, games like BDSM, risk-taking like exhibitionism, or unusual locations. Most people don’t use “vanilla sex” as a neutral term; the implied term is frequently “just vanilla sex.” I beg to differ. … Continue reading Vanilla Sex