No Glove, No Love * Dear Isadora, I’m a 60 yr. old woman, single for most of my life. I have a terrible time trying to get the men in my life to wear a condom. They’re able to get an erection, but lose it when trying to put a condom on. Then they try … Continue reading Ask Isadora: No Glove, No Love
A Nice Guy * Is there anything worse than being “a nice guy”? That’s like being told loud and clear that there’s nothing sexy about me. I’ve been told by too many women that I’m a nice guy and they want to be friends and some woman would be lucky to have me and yada yada, but I … Continue reading Ask Isadora : A Nice Guy
Just The Way You Like It * I am a woman of 65 dating a man of 53 for the past several months. He wants more time, more togetherness, more commitment. He tells me he loves me. While I like him very much, I do not love him nor am I in love with him. … Continue reading Ask Isadora: Just The Way You Like It
Tops, Bottoms and Middles * What’s the difference between S &M and B&D and how do tops and bottoms fit into all those initials? The initials S & M stand for Sadism and Masochism named for the writers Marquis de Sade and Leopold von Sacher-Masoch respectively. Sadism means sexual gratification from inflicting of pain or, as those … Continue reading Ask Isadora: Tops, Bottoms, and Middles
* I am a fairly good looking guy, nothing special but no freak. Twice last week I approached two good looking women, once in a coffee shop and once in the grocery. I was polite. I tried to start a conversation with each of them by introducing myself and saying that I would like to talk to her. Both times … Continue reading Ask Isadora: Talking To Strangers
No Kisses For You * I am a female in my early 20s. I am getting married to a sweet guy my age. When we got together he told me he wasn’t into kissing that much. Even though I love kissing I accepted it. We’ve been together for two years and he never kisses me. … Continue reading Ask Isadora: No Kisses For You
Too Much of a Good Thing * I read a story on the Internet recently of a guy who took too much Viagra and died. Is that possible? Yes, of course it’s possible. One can die from too much anything, even water! Any medicine or drug that is powerful enough to make changes in the body – take away pain, … Continue reading Ask Isadora: Too Much Of A Good Thing
May I Borrow Your Undies? * I have been dating this lovely young woman for a few months and I have stayed over at her house several times. She has a great collection of lingerie in all sorts of colors. I peeked into her dresser when she was in the bathroom. The thing is, I have been dressing … Continue reading Ask Isadora: May I Borrow Your Undies?
A Peculiar Valentine * For Valentine’s Day my boyfriend gave me bicycle clips for the bottom of my jeans. Bicycle clips! I know he’s not the candy or flowers kind of guy but what kind of man gives something like bicycle clips for a romantic occasion? An imaginative one? An unromantic one? One who doesn’t buy into the “give … Continue reading Ask Isadora: A Peculiar Valentine
The Right Moment * I’ve been friends with this woman since the beginning of the school year. We share a large apartment with three other people and the five of us hang out together socially as well as being roommates. I would like to get next to her on a more romantic basis. How do … Continue reading Ask Isadora: The Right Moment