The outcome of your partner’s affair may depend on the nature of your relationship – a  non-committed dating arrangement or a long term monogamous marriage – and how the affair was disclosed or discovered.  Did your partner confess or were you snooping into his/her privacy. Was this an ongoing romance or a onetime event?  That’s … Continue reading Guidelines For Dealing With A Partner’s Affair →

All the commercial hoo-hah that accompanied Valentine’s Day last month reminded me of some  pernicious ideas that continue to hang around and poison far too many relationships. Let’s look at them here. The way it is in the early weeks of the romance is how it will be forever. Then the first time he sees … Continue reading Baseless Beliefs About Love →