I have just spent 3 and a half weeks in a nursing and rehab center for a fractured right foot and a sprained left ankle as well as a post-surgical left knee. I was there, obviously, because I didn’t have a leg to stand on! Right before I entered the “Wellness Center” I received a … Continue reading Making Friends In the Strangest of Situations →

In my life I have been attracted to heterosexual men, bisexual men, gay men, and  transmen; straight women and gay, bisexual, and trans women. No, I am not pansexual. I am a heterosexual woman open to all my feelings. Being attracted does not necessarily mean I want to take them to bed and that’s the … Continue reading Attraction →

A frequent question any therapist hears is “Will I ever get over his affair?” or “How can I ever trust her again?”  There is no answer, of course.  Some people not only get over a breach of trust but can even forge a stronger relationship afterward. Others break up because of a partner’s cheating and … Continue reading Recovering From Infidelity →