“Is there an ethical way to cheat on your spouse” ran the email headline I received from a book promotor earlier this month. My immediate thought was “Sure, and there may be a livelier way to be dead too.” The first definition of cheat is “to deceive or trick”. How can there possibly be a … Continue reading Cheating Ethically? →

Do you think Don Juan or Casanova left instruction manuals detailing their secrets? To my knowledge they didn’t, so we are going to have to construct a playbook on our own, each of us. Some years ago San Francisco columnist Jean Gonick wrote about overhearing two women sitting in an airport lounge having an intimate … Continue reading What Makes A Great Lover →