What Did You Eat? * My new husband and I do not use birth control since we are open to starting a family. Sometimes after sex I get all raw and itchy inside, and sometimes I don’t. I don’t think how we have sex is any different when I do and when I don’t. What … Continue reading Ask Isadora: What Did You Eat?
Is It Catching? *The new man in my life tells me that he had penile cancer some time ago, that it was treated, and now he’s fine. We have not yet been intimate so I have no idea whether his penis will be disfigured in some way. Will it? And, this may be a dumb … Continue reading Ask Isadora: Is It Catching?
Sleeping Beauty * I’m a sexually liberated woman, but my husband comes from a culture where things are a little .different, I guess. He seems overwhelmed any time I try to initiate sex, or even hint that I’m interested in sex. In fact, he is most turned on when he thinks I am sleeping. Over … Continue reading Ask Isadora: Sleeping Beauty
Getting In the Mood *My husband would like to have sex more than twice every other week but I am just exhausted after housework and dealing with the kids all day. We light candles and listen to romantic music … but I can’t seem to relax enough to let go of myself totally. There are … Continue reading Ask Isadora: Getting In the Mood
Are the Claims True? * You have written that there is nothing a man can do to enlarge his penis, but I keep seeing online ads and in magazines for all sorts of products that make a man’s business longer or thicker. Why would all those products be available if they didn’t work? Because suckers … Continue reading Ask Isadora: Are the Claims True?
Advice for the Beginner *What would you tell a young woman just beginning her sexual life? Learn about yourself, your wants, expectations and your own body. Look at your genitals and know where the various parts are. Find out what kind of touches you like and where it feels good by exploring on your own. … Continue reading Ask Isadora : Advice For the Beginner
Permission to Leave * I’ve been in this relationship with my partner for three years and it has run out of steam. I want to end it. My partner says it took both of us to agree to begin a relationship and it takes both people to agree to end it. She says one can’t … Continue reading Ask Isadora : Permission To Leave
Who Looks? *I am a heterosexual man, 37, not married, but dating. I go to a gym to work out several times a week. I check out the other men in the locker room. I think this is natural but could I be kidding myself ? I agree that it is perfectly natural to check … Continue reading Ask Isadora: Who Looks?
In Plain Words * Every few weeks when my husband is in the mood for sex he slaps me on the bottom and says “How’s about it?” I don’t have to tell you that most women would not consider this a romantic overture. In fact, while I like sex as much as he does, it … Continue reading Ask Isadora : In Plain Words
Wigs Down There? *I’m a woman who has lost a lot of my pubic hair. I’m embarrassed to be seen at my health club and certainly in front of a new lover. Is there anything I can do about it? There used to be wiglets made for pubic areas known as merkins but not in … Continue reading Ask Isadora: Wigs Down There?