Reconnecting *My 48 year old husband is kind and good looking and I am afraid to have sex with him. For 4 years my husband was not interested in having sex with me and told me so. He said I was fat and absolutely did not find me attractive in the remotest sense so no … Continue reading Ask Isadora: Reconnecting
The Latest Buzz *Do men ever use vibrators? A recent study out of Indiana University of more than 1000 men found that almost 45%of men had incorporated a vibrator into their sexual activities. There was no statistical differences between men who identified as heterosexual, gay or bisexual. 91% of heterosexual men who used a vibrator … Continue reading Ask Isadora: The Latest Buzz
Same Old Thing * My wife and have been together for 15 years. The entire time of our relationship we have had sex in the missionary position only. She will not try any other position. What can I do to get her to try a new position? I’ve tried asking, but to no avail. Any … Continue reading Ask Isadora: Same Old Thing
Is she right? * I am a 55 years relatively health man. I have been involved with the same women age 56 for a number of years. We have had difficulties in our relationship , however, for the most part we have worked out these issues. The problem is my premature ejaculation. I have never … Continue reading Ask Isadora: Is She Right?
Faulty Teaching * Why is it wrong for young adults to watch pornography? Where else are they going to learn the facts of sex? And do you advocate learning the facts of relationships from Hollywood movies too? The facts are that both commercial porn and commercial entertainment are fantasies and not reality. If a person takes … Continue reading Ask Isadora : Faulty Teaching
Ouch! * I am a 57 year old married man in need of a knee replacement, maybe two. I know most men want to know how to make sex last longer but with my painful knees I want to get it over as quickly as possible because most positions hurt. What can I do? There … Continue reading Ask Isadora: Ouch!
No More Children * While there are many others, sterilization is the most effective permanent form of birth control. I am 42, married, with a child. My family is complete. I really don’t want to deal with birth control for ten more years or so and my husband refuses to have a vasectomy. Do I … Continue reading Ask Isadora: No More Children
Any Man Can *I am 23 yrs old and have been married to my husband who is 36 yrs old for 2 years. Our sex life has plenty of foreplay and spice, except after penetration. My husband will orgasm usually within 1-3 minuets after penetration . This is not a new problem and he does … Continue reading Ask Isadora: Any Man Can
Where’s the Hair? * My new boyfriend was helping me in my yard and when he rolled up his jeans I saw he had absolutely no hair on his lower legs, less than mine and I am a woman who shaves mine every day. He has a normal beard growth on his face so I’m wondering what this … Continue reading Ask Isadora : Where’s the Hair?
No Tighty-whities * I am a twenty-two year old male, six feet and one inch tall, in reasonable (and steadily improving) shape, but I have always had difficulty in selecting clothing that can fit. One area of particular discomfort is in regards to undergarments. While I’ve been able to find shoes in my correct sizes (that’s not a … Continue reading Ask Isadora: No Tighty-whities