What I Wish Men Knew * I am new to the area and really don’t know how to go about making friends. It was a lot easier when I was in school. I would like some woman friends but I also wouldn’t mind meeting also someone special to date. Where do I begin? You begin by going to … Continue reading Ask Isadora : What I Wish Men Knew
The Magic Pill * Why can’t the drug manufacturers find something that will work on women the way Viagra does on men? For that matter, does Viagra and the other pills like it ever work for women? Viagra does seem to work for some women. The reason is that it sends blood to engorge the genitals. Where that creates an … Continue reading Ask Isadora: The Magic Pill
A Small Minority * I am 24 years old. I am a college graduate and hold down a good job. I have my own apartment and a few good friends with whom I have an adequate social life. I’m not sure if I have a problem or not, but the fact is I have never been attracted to … Continue reading Ask Isadora: A Small Minority
X Marks the Spot * You must get asked this often but I would really like to know: Does the G Spot exist? Does every women have one? The definitive book on this is The G Spot and Other Discoveries About Human Sexuality by Ladas, Whipple, and Perry originally published in the early 80’s and now updated and out in paper … Continue reading Ask Isadora : X Marks The Spot
No Glove, No Love * Dear Isadora, I’m a 60 yr. old woman, single for most of my life. I have a terrible time trying to get the men in my life to wear a condom. They’re able to get an erection, but lose it when trying to put a condom on. Then they try … Continue reading Ask Isadora: No Glove, No Love
A Nice Guy * Is there anything worse than being “a nice guy”? That’s like being told loud and clear that there’s nothing sexy about me. I’ve been told by too many women that I’m a nice guy and they want to be friends and some woman would be lucky to have me and yada yada, but I … Continue reading Ask Isadora : A Nice Guy
Just The Way You Like It * I am a woman of 65 dating a man of 53 for the past several months. He wants more time, more togetherness, more commitment. He tells me he loves me. While I like him very much, I do not love him nor am I in love with him. … Continue reading Ask Isadora: Just The Way You Like It
Tops, Bottoms and Middles * What’s the difference between S &M and B&D and how do tops and bottoms fit into all those initials? The initials S & M stand for Sadism and Masochism named for the writers Marquis de Sade and Leopold von Sacher-Masoch respectively. Sadism means sexual gratification from inflicting of pain or, as those … Continue reading Ask Isadora: Tops, Bottoms, and Middles
* I am a fairly good looking guy, nothing special but no freak. Twice last week I approached two good looking women, once in a coffee shop and once in the grocery. I was polite. I tried to start a conversation with each of them by introducing myself and saying that I would like to talk to her. Both times … Continue reading Ask Isadora: Talking To Strangers
No Kisses For You * I am a female in my early 20s. I am getting married to a sweet guy my age. When we got together he told me he wasn’t into kissing that much. Even though I love kissing I accepted it. We’ve been together for two years and he never kisses me. … Continue reading Ask Isadora: No Kisses For You