* It feels to me that my husband and I are missing many occasions for sex because, even after 18 years of marriage, we don’t seem to let the other know clearly enough when we’re interested. I don’t know what to do about this. Sit down together. Ask him if it’s his sense as well … Continue reading Ask Isadora: Sending Signals
* On a trip to Washington, D.C., my boyfriend asked me to give him head. Usually I am happy to do that whenever he wants. I refused because I thought it was dangerous to do while he was driving. I wouldn’t give him a hand job either. He got really mad. Was I wrong? What … Continue reading Ask Isadora: Designated Entertainer
*I have a male friend at work that I’m pretty sure is gay. He has a “girlfriend” of ten years, that no one has ever met or even seen a picture of and he is extremely effeminate. I wish he would come clean instead of lying. I understand everyone has a right to privacy, but … Continue reading Ask Isadora: Inviting Him Out