What’s the Difference? * Do you believe in that “men and women are from different planets” stuff? Are the sexes all that different? No. There are far more ways in which we are similar than there are differences. But there are some things that do tend to separate men and women sexually and these differences … Continue reading Ask Isadora : What’s the Difference?
Who Looks? * Is it true most women of all ages enjoy seeing a naked man who is well endowed? Not necessarily. Some do like to look at naked men, some don’t. For some women it will depend on who that naked man is. Many will look at his face, hands, shoulders, and other parts … Continue reading Ask Isadora : Who Looks?
Who’s A Virgin? * I was wondering if you had sex two times when it didn’t go all the way in but there was bleeding, are you a virgin? The bleeding was probably the tearing of your hymen, so technically you are not a virgin. However, if you did not have actual penis in vagina … Continue reading Ask Isadora : Who’s A Virgin?
Boys and Their Toys * Do men use vibrators or, if they don’t, are there sex toys made just for men? If there’s money to be made do you think any clever inventor or marketer would overlook the opportunity? Most pornography, print or film, is made for men with a special niche market of gay … Continue reading Ask Isadora: Boys and Their Toys
No Glove, No Love * I am a single guy trying to do the right thing in always using condoms. The last two girls I was with said they didn’t want me to use them. What’s up with that? In a recent study discussed in Contemporary Sexuality more than a third of the women polled … Continue reading Ask Isadora: No Glove, No Love
Taking Charge of Life * I am a single mom in my late 40’s and I haven’t had a love life in almost 10 years! Am I normal? Whether it’s normal or not for you or for anyone else is not the issue. You are a grown up and presumably in charge of your own … Continue reading Ask Isadora : Taking Charge of Life
Is It Normal? * I have been having an argument with my wife that I hope you can settle. What is normal sex? I’m not surprised you two can not agree on a definition. Psychologists and sexologists have been wrangling on just that subject for decades. They can’t even decide what normal sex ISN’T. Academics … Continue reading Ask Isadora: Is It Normal?
Dangerous Chatting * I met my boyfriend of several months in an online chat room. We have a great relationship except that he still goes to chat rooms. I don’t know who he talks to but since he met me there he can meet other women. Can I ask him to stop going to online … Continue reading Ask Isadora: Dangerous Chatting
For the Goose or for the Gander * Men have been interested in much younger women as far back as stories in the Bible so what’s wrong with a mature woman being interested in a younger man or he in her? I’m getting all sorts of nasty comments from my friends and family, as if … Continue reading Ask Isadora: For the Goose or For the Gander
Reconnecting *My 48 year old husband is kind and good looking and I am afraid to have sex with him. For 4 years my husband was not interested in having sex with me and told me so. He said I was fat and absolutely did not find me attractive in the remotest sense so no … Continue reading Ask Isadora: Reconnecting