* I am a 64 year old man, divorced, and honestly, lonely. I eat all my meals out and I see women eating alone or in small groups and wonder if I could ask to join them, just for the conversation. I’d really like to have a woman in my life to occasionally go out … Continue reading Ask Isadora : Older Singles
* Do men learn how to act with women from their mothers or from their wife or female lovers? What do you think? That’s a very interesting question. Like the nature/nurture controversy there is no easy answer. I actually think men learn a great deal from their fathers or other male role models how to … Continue reading Ask Isadora #42-08 : Knowledge of Women
* I’ve heard that after many years of sexual intercourse and maybe some childbirth, a woman’s vagina will stretch and become too large for her partner. After some time without, I am again sexually active but my vagina seems to have shrunk. Is that possible? I used to enjoy intercourse but now it’s painful. What’s … Continue reading Ask Isadora: Changes
* I happen to be attracted to women with large breasts. That’s not all that attracts me. I care about temperament, intelligence, and a few other things, but large breasts are among them. I am becoming more involved with a woman I’m dating whom I like very much. She has small breasts. Would I be … Continue reading Ask Isadora: Conditional Love
*I am a 34 years old woman .I guess I have a sexual hysteria problem that I’ve suffered for 8 years. I lost my sexual feeling 8 years ago and now I have no sexual desire or sexual motivation about men or women. I tried to relate with some men but I never have excitation … Continue reading Ask Isadora #39-08 : Cultural Considerations
* My girlfriend seems to want to have sex every uncomfortable place you can imagine. She‘s wanted to stop the car to make love on a beach, in a forest, and even a field where there were cows. What‘s with that? You could ask her why but I‘m sure you‘ll get an ode on the … Continue reading Ask Isadora: The Glories of Nature
* Last week I found a collection of magazine pages of transsexuals and hermaphrodites in sexual acts with other males. It was in my husband’s desk, just lying on top where our son could have easily found them. This is not just a morbid curiosity. He has admitted being sexually aroused by them. I have … Continue reading Ask Isadora: Those Magazines
* In the movie Mama Mia! one of the prospective fathers of the bride seems to come out to himself and one of the other men for the first time in his mid 50’s or so. (The ages in this movie are so weird that the main characters can be anywhere from 40 to 65.) … Continue reading Ask Isadora #34-08 : Surprise, You're Gay
* I am a 40 year old married man, a professional with a wife who is 38 and also a businesswoman. We love each other, we love sex, but we never seem to find time for it. We both agree that we would like to have more sex but we can‘t agree how. I suggested … Continue reading Ask Isadora: Time for Sex
* I am a 40 year old woman who has never been married and who has only had several boyfriends in her lifetime. I am very untrusting and I have problems with intimacy. I was injured time and time again by my family of origin, physically and emotionally, but now they are all gone and … Continue reading Ask Isadora: Ending Loneliness