* My girlfriend seems to want to have sex every uncomfortable place you can imagine. She‘s wanted to stop the car to make love on a beach, in a forest, and even a field where there were cows. What‘s with that? You could ask her why but I‘m sure you‘ll get an ode on the … Continue reading Ask Isadora: The Glories of Nature
* Last week I found a collection of magazine pages of transsexuals and hermaphrodites in sexual acts with other males. It was in my husband’s desk, just lying on top where our son could have easily found them. This is not just a morbid curiosity. He has admitted being sexually aroused by them. I have … Continue reading Ask Isadora: Those Magazines
* I am a 40 year old married man, a professional with a wife who is 38 and also a businesswoman. We love each other, we love sex, but we never seem to find time for it. We both agree that we would like to have more sex but we can‘t agree how. I suggested … Continue reading Ask Isadora: Time for Sex
* In the movie Mama Mia! one of the prospective fathers of the bride seems to come out to himself and one of the other men for the first time in his mid 50’s or so. (The ages in this movie are so weird that the main characters can be anywhere from 40 to 65.) … Continue reading Ask Isadora #34-08 : Surprise, You're Gay
* OK so I’ve been seeing this guy for the past three years and its been like five months since we’ve been “on break”. We are still seeing each other because we want to see if it works out but the thing is that he hasn’t brought anything up about us trying it again. I … Continue reading Ask Isadora #33-08 : All About Risk
* I am a 40 year old woman who has never been married and who has only had several boyfriends in her lifetime. I am very untrusting and I have problems with intimacy. I was injured time and time again by my family of origin, physically and emotionally, but now they are all gone and … Continue reading Ask Isadora: Ending Loneliness
* My new guy says at our age (40+) we don’t have to worry about birth control or as white, middleclass professionals we don’t need to concern ourselves with AIDS. Therefor there is no need of condoms. What do you say? I say, don’t invest your money with this guy or allow him any access … Continue reading Ask Isadora : Love, Lust & Latex
* We are two women in a longterm relationship. My partner is older than I and is going through a difficult menopause. I am sympathetic, of course, but her mood swings are driving us both crazy. Is there anything that can be done about them? How long are we both going to have to endure … Continue reading Ask Isadora #30-08 : Midlife Misery
*I am 31 years old man and married for four years. I have a foot fetish and it is creating problems for my married life. I am not able to have intercourse because I do not get aroused unless there is feet involved. My wife does not knows about my fetish, and if I try … Continue reading Ask Isadora #29-08 : Footloose
* Do you think men know right away if they are attracted to someone and it takes women longer to figure it out? It seems that way to me. I bet if you took a survey of all your friends and acquaintances and how they connected with their last love your theory would be disproved. … Continue reading Ask Isadora: Yes or No